May 10th 19th century

Maria Benedetta Frey

An Italian Cistercian nun paralyzed for 52 years, she transformed her cell into a place of apostolate and spiritual counsel.

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    Biography

    Youth in Rome, education, and entry into the Cistercian monastery of the Visitation in Viterbo.

    Ersilia Penelope Frey was born in Rome on March 6, 1836, the daughter of Luigi Frey and Margherita Maria Giannotti. She was baptized the following day, March 7, 1836, in the parish church of Sant'Andrea delle Fratte. When she was only two years old, her mother died in childbirth while giving birth to her brother. Her father, deeply affected by this bereavement, distanced himself and entrusted Ersilia and her older sister Ernesta to their maternal grandmother Geltrude and their aunt Margherita Ridolfi.

    From her childhood, Ersilia manifested a sharp intelligence, a joyful temperament, and a marked inclination for piety. From 1841 to 1847, she attended the school of the Maestre Pie, where she received a general education as well as lessons in music, sewing, and embroidery. She then continued her training at the boarding school of the Dominican Sisters, where she perfected herself in the art of music and singing, which became her passions.

    Feeling called to the contemplative religious life, she overcame the reluctance of her family. On the advice of her Camillian spiritual director, she turned to the Cistercian monastery of the Visitation in Viterbo, commonly called the "Monastero della Duchessa" (Monastery of the Duchess). Not having the dowry required by the constitutions of the order, she obtained a dispensation from the Holy See in exchange for her service as music mistress and organist for the community. She entered the monastery in 1856. On July 21, 1857, she received the monastic habit and took the name Maria Benedetta Giuseppa (Mary Benedict Joseph). She pronounced her solemn vows on July 2, 1858.

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    Life and work

    Struck by total paralysis, she spent 52 years bedridden, transforming her cell into a center for spiritual counsel.

    At the end of 1861, at the age of 25, the young nun was struck by a progressive paralysis that began in her left leg before spreading to her left arm and spine. She would spend the next fifty-two years of her life entirely immobilized in her bed.

    Her physical sufferings were extreme. Due to acute pain, she could not rest her head on pillows, nor keep it upright. With her head falling inertly onto her chest with a constant risk of suffocation, the sisters had to support her forehead using a system of cords and bandages attached to her bed. To this paralysis were added other ailments: a fistula on her arm, a wound on her right heel, frequent bronchitis and pneumonia, and, in the final years of her life, cancer of the intestine.

    Despite this total immobility—she could only move her eyes, her tongue, and her right hand—her cell became an exceptional spiritual hearth. By special authorization from the ecclesiastical authority, her room was arranged in such a way as to respect the rules of enclosure while allowing her to receive outside visitors. Pope Pius IX also granted the privilege of having Mass celebrated directly in her cell, facing her bed. It was in this room that baptisms, first communions, confirmations, and even priestly ordinations were sometimes administered.

    Sister Maria Benedetta became a sought-after spiritual counselor. Dozens of people—laypeople, seminarians, priests, bishops, and cardinals—crowded at her bedside to solicit her prayers, her advice, and her discernment. Unable to move, she also maintained a vast correspondence, dictating letters of comfort that she invariably signed with the expression "Dalla Croce" (From the Cross).

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    Path to Holiness

    Holy death in 1913, transfer of her remains, and opening of the beatification process.

    Sister Maria Benedetta Frey died holily on May 10, 1913, in Viterbo, after receiving the last sacraments and the apostolic blessing of Pope Saint Pius X. Her funeral attracted a huge crowd. She was initially buried in the municipal cemetery of San Lazzaro in Viterbo.

    On December 10, 1927, her remains were transferred to the Child Jesus chapel of the Visitation monastery church. On April 23, 1968, a canonical recognition of her body was carried out under the direction of the diocesan bishop, Msgr. Luigi Boccadoro; her body was then discovered intact, although dried and browned.

    The ordinary informative process on her reputation for holiness opened in Viterbo on December 26, 1959, and closed on November 3, 1962, after the hearing of 77 witnesses. The legal validity of this process was recognized by a decree of the Congregation for the Causes of Saints on November 23, 1984. On June 24, 2014, the Congress of Theological Consultants gave a unanimous favorable opinion on the heroicity of her virtues.

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    Beatification and canonization

    Declaration of venerability by Pope Francis in 2015.

    On September 30, 2015, Pope Francis authorized the Congregation for the Causes of Saints to promulgate the decree recognizing the heroic nature of her theological and cardinal virtues. Sister Maria Benedetta Frey was thus officially declared venerable.

    Her cause for beatification is still ongoing, awaiting the official recognition of a miracle attributed to her intercession.

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    Spirituality and legacy

    Acceptance of suffering, devotion to the Eucharist and the Child Jesus, and spiritual friendship with Saint Luigi Orione.

    The spirituality of Maria Benedetta Frey is based on the heroic acceptance of suffering experienced as a configuration to the crucified Christ and an active participation in his work of redemption. Far from sinking into sadness or withdrawal, she always maintained a smiling and peaceful face, testifying to a deep intimate union with God. She liked to repeat in her writings: "Holiness consists only in fulfilling in everything the most holy will of God, in one's own state."

    She also nurtured a fervent devotion to the Eucharist and the Child Jesus (the Bambinello), of whom she kept a wax statue facing her bed and to whom she entrusted all the prayer intentions submitted to her.

    Among her significant spiritual relationships is her deep friendship with Saint Luigi Orione (Don Orione), who visited her in April 1912. During their meeting, she advised him to have no melancholy and to accept being "like rags in the hands of God" (essere stracci nelle mani di Dio) to let himself be guided by Divine Providence. This formula would deeply mark Don Orione, who drew inspiration from it for the foundation of the female branch of his work, the Little Missionary Sisters of Charity.

    Official source Entry written by Sancteo from verified contemporary sources (official Church sources and reference hagiography).

    Frequently asked questions about Maria Benedetta Frey

    Who was Maria Benedetta Frey?

    An Italian Cistercian nun paralyzed for 52 years, she transformed her cell into a place of apostolate and spiritual counsel.

    Which saints were contemporaries of Maria Benedetta Frey?

    Contemporaries include: Jesús María Echavarría Aguirre, Pauline of the Agonizing Heart of Jesus, Narcisa de Jesús and Juan de Jesús López y González.

    When did Maria Benedetta Frey die?

    Maria Benedetta Frey died around 1836.

    What are the other names of Maria Benedetta Frey?

    Other forms of the name: Ersilia Penelope Frey and Maria Benedetta Giuseppa Frey.

    Who are the relatives of Maria Benedetta Frey?

    Relatives of Maria Benedetta Frey: Luigi Frey (father), Margherita Maria Giannotti (mother), Ernesta Frey (older sister), Geltrude (maternal grandmother) and Margherita Ridolfi (aunt).

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    1. Era / death: 1836-1913
    2. Decree of venerability by Francis

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